Today I read an article by Christopher B. Hays recommended by Daniel Kirk (HT). It is titled “The Folly of Answering Fools” (read here). He bases his thoughts on Prov. 26.4-5 where in one breath Scripture tells us both to answer a fool in his folly and not to answer a fool in his folly. In this proverb we realize that there is a time to challenge foolishness, but there is also a time to let it go. For instance, Hays wonders if Dan Brown’s The Da Vinci Code would have been as big a deal if it wouldn’t have caused so many Christians to freak out. Maybe there is a time to not bring attention to bad pop culture letting it sink away into obscurity? It is a good article. I recommend it.
This reminded me of a post written earlier this week by Kevin DeYoung where he provided twelve marks of a contentious person (read here). This post made me ponder why Christians always feel obligated to add their two cents (including my own urge to do so). It seems like many Christians fail to live the wisdom of Proverbs 26.4-5 for the simple reason that they like being contentious! Maybe we have a hard time not answering the fool like Hays advises us from the proverb is because we are foolish ourselves. We think we need to say something about everything.
It is like the song by Garbage “I’m Only Happy When It Rains” which has the lines,
I’m only happy when it rains/
I’m only happy when its complicated/
And though I know you can’t appreciate it /
I’m only happy when it rains/
You know I love it when the news is bad/
Why it feels so good to feel so sad/
I’m only happy when it rains
If you think I am being whining consider this: What posts in the blogosphere get the most attention? One with an exegetical investigation? Those pondering theological issues relevant to the church? Not usually (and these can often lead to intense conversations). Rather, it seems to me, that the posts that are intentionally critical of this or that (and I am not saying we should not write these and I am not saying I won’t write these) bring crowds! Why is this?
Are we Christians overly contentious? Can it be said of us not simply that we contend for important things sometimes, or that we can be contentious on occasion when something seems worth our time and effort, but rather that we seek conflict?
This is something that I have been pondering. What do you think? Are we Christians overly contentious? What about those of us in the blogosphere? If we are honest do we prefer juicy, edgy blog posts? How can we seek balance?



