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Avoid ageism

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The elderly have walked life's path. We should listen to their stories.

Since my wife and I moved to Portland, OR, in late 2009 we have seen some really creative, energetic churches fueled by the vision of younger evangelicals (twenty-somethings and early thirty-somethings). These churches resonate with an age group that usually does not find itself attracted to Christianity. Some of them are quite large and the others are growing. For the most part we can consider these groups as very successful.

Yet I found myself with one concern. Ageism.

At lunch yesterday I was talking with my wife who is studying at Portland State University where many of her classes address sociological subjects (e.g. race, socio-economic class, gender, sexuality) and it appeared to us that we were seeing something in the church that is all too common in our post-industrialized society. We are seen as economic beings. Our ontological worth is often dependent upon our contribution to the machine of which we are part. Once people become elderly they are seen as unable to contribute much further and therefore they are burdensome to society’s progress.

The same may be said of children or college students, but our society sees them as “the future”. We can give to them now because it is an investment. We often see the elderly as having already come and gone.

This language has crept into many churches even if it is not explicit. We talk about the “next Christianity” and the “next Christians” and “emerging churches”. While this talk may not always lend itself to the idea that our parents and grandparents are old fuddy-duddies it often does just that.

In many societies around the world, and in most societies in history, the elderly contributed something that was absolutely necessary: wisdom. No, not all elderly people are wise, but it isn’t a stretch to say almost no young people can claim that title (though some are wiser than their peers). Also, the elderly give us perspective. They have seen life. They have made the journey.

We have settled in a church that has some older people. I am talking about in their eighties and nineties! These saints are amazing people to be around and their voices are important to hear. So while I am thankful for what the churches that are reaching my generation are doing, I think there is something missing. We need people who have been through economic woes, cultural changes, challenges in their marriage, the death of loved ones, and so forth.

If the gospel is good news that brings down barriers one of those barriers is age. It will help us see the wisdom and worth of those who are no longer “cutting edge” and “progressive”. If you church just happens to be young that is fine, but we should always be careful to avoid modeling our culture’s disregard for those who have come before us. What they lack in singing, in the arts, in their contributions to planning new ways to engage your culture, they make up in wisdom, in the ability to see the dangers in certain trends and fads, and perspective on life that we need.

 

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Author: Brian LePort

I'm a blogger with a MA in Biblical and Theological Studies and a Master of Theology (ThM).

8 thoughts on “Avoid ageism

  1. Great thoughts. Glad you said it. When I say it, I’m an old guy just griping. (And I’m 45!)

    This is stuff that has me upset. It’s probably why it’s difficult for my own church to grow. I insist on all ages. I won’t have a 20-something church.

    But it’s the big thing. Even for districts. In my denomination, our district is pushing churches to hire pastors in their 30′s. A lot of guys in their 50′s with good experience and wisdom and a pastor’s heart are getting passed on because of THEIR AGE.

    Thanks for putting this out there.

  2. @Dan: One of the things that led me to my current church is that the pastor is fifty-one years old. I am twenty-eight. I have some interesting challenges ahead: further education, career choices, deciding on where to settle, having children and becoming part of a community, etc. While I respect younger pastors for what they do, I don’t know how helpful they will be in advising me and modeling life for me as I engage these stages of life. It is sad to me to think that a fifty-something would be passed over for a pastoral position. We need more fifty-somethings!

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  4. I find it somewhat ironic that I’m a 20-something who generally dislikes 20-something-focused churches. What I mean by that is the general tone in the messages is attuned for those in their 20s, the various ministries aimed at the 20 year-olds, the worship music is literally attuned to the younger crowd’s interest, etc. – it all seems to be exercising partiality in a way. From what I’ve seen, it encourages 30-, 40-, and maybe even 50-somethings to act much younger than they really are. It just bugs me when someone twice my age acts like my peers act. I’m not saying it’s immature, but I am saying it’s just kind of weird.

    No pastor should be disqualified simply because of their age (either too old or too young). No matter how old one’s pastor is, there are always necessary adjustments. My hometown church had a pastor in his late 20s for a while then another pastor in his late 50s shortly after that. I and my peers preferred the younger guy simply because he was easier to relate to, but yet the older guy had been through much more and had a deep well of wisdom to draw from. There are pros and cons to either group no matter who is leading.

  5. @Jeremy: True, it is a bit odd to have hipsters our parent’s age! I don’t think a twenty-something should be disqualified from pastoral work, though I do think thirty is a good age to begin, at least as the lead pastor. Anyone under thirty worries me a bit, partially because I did assistant pastoral work in my early to mid-twenties and I was totally incompetent. But disqualification because of older age is even worse, unless there are health issues involved that would prevent a candidate from being able to perform the necessary tasks.

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  7. I found your post interesting because I had never really thought of ageism in the church. Our pastor made a good point before that older people in the church are, as you mentioned, a source of wisdom. He also took that opportunity to encourage older people in the church to be mentors to young people. What a blessing! The Bible mentions age as a “crown” () and I see that same honor should be placed in the church nowadays.

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